Just Pong

“It was my freshman year, we were invited to a pregame at ___.  I was playing pong with this guy, I don’t remember who it was or what he looked like.  We were just playing pong, it was totally normal just talking and then he just put his hand…just like held it on my butt and just kept it there. I’m usually someone who speaks out and I don’t know what happened, it just startled me a lot and I kind of just stepped away and I remember so vividly what I was wearing because that was my first reaction.  What was I wearing that could make him think he could do that and now I’m so mad at myself for having that first reaction.  I was wearing athletic leggings and a T-shirt and I was like how could he think that I would want that in athletic leggings and a shirt.  Now I can’t stop thinking about how I immediately thought it was my fault.” – Female, 21